by: Kelley Rosano
What is a twin flame you may ask?
The term most often has been confused with that of soul mates the two are distinctly different. The greatest love story ever told is the one you have with your very own beloved twin flame. In the beginning we were created in God (Alpha and Omega) in an ovoid white-fire-spirit-light, the soul was split just like the atom (Adam Kadman) into two identical parts (twin flames) each with the same identical soul blueprint. The tai-chi is a symbol of twin flames. Twin flames in love spiraling in infinity.
We then went forth from the Etheric realm (heaven) of God’s perfect light into denser levels of consciousness (the physical world). The actual saga of Adam and Eve is about twin flames, for we all have our own Adam and Eve story. Somewhere in cosmos, each one of us has our very own divine other, who carries either the feminine or masculine polarity.
This soul memory of our twin flame is so powerful, that we can feel very alone in this world, as we search for that promise of that original perfect love, the twin. No other love can compare to your own twin flame. Moreover, what I have seen with some clients in very difficult relationships choosing to suffer in agonizing pain, just to be with their twin flame.
The movies Somewhere in Time, The English Patient and Moulin Rouge are modern day examples of twin flame love. Twin flames throughout history and literature are seen as tragic love stories i.e., Cleopatra and Mark Anthony, Samson and Delilah. The dark forces of anti-love run rampant on planet earth, working to sabotage twin flames and keep them apart. Often twin flames do not have enough Self-mastery to maintain a healthy partnership. Thus, they seek solace with the next best alternative a soul mate.
Soul Mates are passionate friends of old
Soul mates and karmic relationships are the other two positions of partnership. Soul mates can create very happy marriages as they are working on similar soul initiations, life lessons, and projects in this life. Soul mates have been friends for life times and may need each other in this life to satisfy a mission or complete a work. They may not experience the incredible, all-consuming, intense love dynamic as twin flames.
However, soul mates experience a calmer, more stable connection on the lines of a brother and a sister type rapport. This is not to say that they don’t experience chemistry and passion. It is the slow burn that lasts a lifetime. Not the all consuming twin flame fire that can destroy lives. I find the very best marriages to be between soul mates they work very harmoniously together in business, raising children and contributing to the community. Soul mates make us feel happier, stronger and richer.
Karmic relationships and karmic debt
Karmic relationships are often confused with that of twin flames because they have the same intense attraction and emotional charge. The I can’t get you out of my head thing, mental obsession. My body will not stop desiring you, the compulsive sexual attraction. In truth, these are often symptoms of a tragic past life experience from a prior life. Your soul is offering you as a warning Not a green light to get involved.
Yet people often ignore or mistake their Inner Being voice and jump in full speed ahead, only to come out hurt, defeated and lost. I speak from personal and professional experience. Karmic relationships are where either the person owes you a karmic-debt or you owe them from a former life. The liaison ends when the debt is paid or when Spirit determines the time of opportunity to play the relationship out is up.
All relationships are for mutual growth and personal evolution. How can you tell if you are in a karmic relationship? No relationship is perfect, but if you feel like you need therapy as a result of being with this person, then this could be an indicator. Feeling drained emotionally, physically, and financiallyare all indicators of a karmic entanglement. If you feel like you are on a downward spiral and are losing income your relationships is karmic. Are you doing all the giving and your partner is doing all the taking? Look-out it may be a karmic entanglement.
We need to love Self more than the need for any relationship. You are having a relationship with You first. We need to be in a strong healthy relationship with Self in order to be healthy with another. The Age of Aquarius is the age of Twin Flames and Soul Mates coming together in love to anchor in our Golden Age. In truth, we are the forerunners of this Great Golden Age dawning. The power of love between twin flames and soul mates spreads out into our communities and their love heals us all.
Balance is the key in all successful relationships and how the universe works. There must be an equal amount of giving and receiving for a healthy balanced union. Successful relationships whether they are twin flames, soul mates or karmic relationships give and receive from each other creating a healthy balanced dynamic.